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When Rest Becomes Transformation: Embracing Inner Upgrades
What looks like rest on the outside might actually be deep transformation on the inside. If you're feeling slow, foggy, or like you're not “doing enough,” you might be in a season of inner upgrades. This isn’t burnout. It’s becoming. Here’s how to recognize the signs and trust the phase you’re in.
Kelly McCooeye
Jun 93 min read


What I Did When “I Need to Make Money” Started to Feel Like a Threat
I was doing everything right but still feeling the panic rise. What if it wasn’t a strategy problem, but a receiving problem? This post is about what shifted when I stopped trying to push harder and started learning to hold more—money, love, rest, and support—without flinching.
Kelly McCooeye
Jun 22 min read


The Cost of Being Chosen
We were taught to be chosen—by partners, clients, even the world—so we wouldn’t be left. But chasing approval means abandoning ourselves. Real freedom starts when we stop performing and start remembering. Your care isn’t selfish. It’s sacred. This post unpacks the cost of being the “good girl” and what it really means to come home to yourself.
Kelly McCooeye
May 263 min read


What If Money Isn’t the Problem?
What if your struggle with money isn’t about mindset, but about safety? This post dives into why receiving can feel unsafe, even when you want more. If you’ve ever shrunk at the thought of charging your worth or felt guilty when things go well, it’s not sabotage; it’s survival. Let’s unpack it.
Kelly McCooeye
May 193 min read


What Happens When You Stop Asking for Permission
What if your emotions weren’t the problem, but the map? This piece explores what happens when you stop asking for permission and start trusting your instincts. It’s about reclaiming your voice, owning your choices, and letting your inner truth lead, without apology. If you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it.
Kelly McCooeye
May 123 min read


I Didn’t Rewire My Money Story by Manifesting Harder
I didn’t rewire my money story by manifesting harder. I had to build the capacity to receive without shrinking, bracing, or apologizing for it. Because abundance isn’t just about what flows in. It’s about what you're strong enough to receive without abandoning yourself.
Kelly McCooeye
May 53 min read


When "More" Still Doesn’t Feel Like Enough (And the Real Reason We Struggle to Receive)
Even after reaching a goal, I found myself feeling fear instead of joy, fear that didn’t even belong to me. In this post, I’m exploring how inherited patterns shape our ability to receive, why “enough” can still feel unsafe, and what it really takes to let abundance in. It’s not about doing more. It’s about healing what’s been echoing through us for generations.
Kelly McCooeye
Apr 283 min read


You’re Not a Bunny. You’re a Freaking Tiger.
You weren’t meant to stay small. If you’ve been trying to grow something real while playing by rules that ask you to disappear, this is for you. Maybe you’re not stuck. Maybe you’re a tiger, finally waking up in a world that told you to act like prey.
Kelly McCooeye
Apr 222 min read


Redefining Forgiveness: Why I Stopped Trying to “Let It Go” and Started Releasing It Back
Forgiveness isn’t letting it go. It’s releasing what was never yours to carry.
Kelly McCooeye
Mar 283 min read


What Confidence Actually Is (And What It Isn’t)
Most people get confidence completely wrong. We’ve been taught that confidence comes from past success. If you’ve done something before...
Kelly McCooeye
Feb 94 min read


Embracing the Beauty of Custom Work: From Dressmaking to Emotional Transformation
Custom work is my jam! From dresses to emotions, I help you tailor a life you love—no cookie-cutter solutions, just YOU, perfectly fitted.
Kelly McCooeye
Dec 29, 20243 min read


Why Do Women Feel “Not Good Enough” Despite Doing So Much for Everyone Else?
“You don’t matter. You’re just here to take care of everyone else. Especially me and what I want.” That was the message I heard as a...
Kelly McCooeye
Dec 16, 20244 min read


Holiday Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace, One Response at a Time
Boundaries aren’t about control—they’re about protecting your connection to yourself. This holiday, honor your peace with grace and courage.
Kelly McCooeye
Dec 1, 20243 min read


The Power of Connection
Connection is the key to thriving in life and business. Reconnect with yourself, fuel authentic relationships, and find your flow.
Kelly McCooeye
Nov 25, 20243 min read


Why I Don’t Teach You to “Control” Your Emotions (and What I Teach Instead)
Discover why controlling emotions isn’t the answer and how processing them leads to deeper self-connection, emotional freedom, and joy. Lear
Kelly McCooeye
Nov 9, 20243 min read
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