My thoughts about all the Stuff...

We were taught to be chosen—by partners, clients, even the world—so we wouldn’t be left. But chasing approval means abandoning ourselves. Real freedom starts when we stop performing and start remembering. Your care isn’t selfish. It’s sacred. This post unpacks the cost of being the “good girl” and what it really means to come home to yourself.

What if your struggle with money isn’t about mindset, but about safety? This post dives into why receiving can feel unsafe, even when you want more. If you’ve ever shrunk at the thought of charging your worth or felt guilty when things go well, it’s not sabotage; it’s survival. Let’s unpack it.

Even after reaching a goal, I found myself feeling fear instead of joy, fear that didn’t even belong to me. In this post, I’m exploring how inherited patterns shape our ability to receive, why “enough” can still feel unsafe, and what it really takes to let abundance in. It’s not about doing more. It’s about healing what’s been echoing through us for generations.