My thoughts about all the Stuff...

I was doing everything right but still feeling the panic rise. What if it wasn’t a strategy problem, but a receiving problem? This post is about what shifted when I stopped trying to push harder and started learning to hold more—money, love, rest, and support—without flinching.

We were taught to be chosen—by partners, clients, even the world—so we wouldn’t be left. But chasing approval means abandoning ourselves. Real freedom starts when we stop performing and start remembering. Your care isn’t selfish. It’s sacred. This post unpacks the cost of being the “good girl” and what it really means to come home to yourself.

You weren’t meant to stay small. If you’ve been trying to grow something real while playing by rules that ask you to disappear, this is for you. Maybe you’re not stuck. Maybe you’re a tiger, finally waking up in a world that told you to act like prey.

Forgiveness isn’t letting it go. It’s releasing what was never yours to carry.